The woman in your
life
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry
her, keeping these facts in mind.
Here is a girl, who
is as much educated as you are. Who is earning almost as much as you do. One,
who has dreams and aspirations just as You have because she is as human as you
are. One, who has never entered the
kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in
studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for
their cooking achievements . One, who has lived and loved her parents brothers
sisters, almost as much as you do for
20-25 years of her life. One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that her home, people who love her, to adopt your
home, your family, your ways and even your family and even new name that you
generally give her after marriage. One,
who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1, while you sleep unconscious
to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the
morning and cook Food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you
are, maybe more. And yet never ever
expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she
doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns
faster than you. One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and
even men at her workplace too. Those, who she knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink
and dance just as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even
though you say otherwise One, who can be
late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One,
who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
Relationship in her entire life can be a grand success, if you just help her some way
and trust her. One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one
she knows in your entire house .Your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your
understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this, Please appreciate "HER" because she
is the one who makes us stand in this offensive
society.
